Man she needs a major attitude adjustment. Well where do I start? Alright first of all let me tell you this, I am not a parent. I’m only 15 but if she were my kid she would be sooooo grounded it’s not even funny. You say she refuses to eat because you won’t give her texting back on her phone? Then make her sit at the dinner table with dinner in front of her until she eats it. If she sits there all night to bad for her! Stand your ground with her cell phone. If I were you I’d take it all together. As for the school work make her do it. Every day when she gets home make her sit and do it while you are watching her. Check it when she’s done and make her correct the ones she has done wrong. Make her realize you will NOT cave in. Onto the clothes thing heres what I would do. It’s harsh but she needs harsh. Take all the clothes she has. Comply to what she wants buy her new clothes but let it be stuff you want her wearing. Make it stuff you would like to see her in. Not stuff she wants. Don’t give her the chance to ruin the clothes. If you have to take her door of the hinges so you know what she is doing all the time then do it. She needs to realize who’s in control. If she likes art so much then take that from her. The only way she’s gonna get it is if you take the things that mean the most to her. When I was her age I did much of what she is doing. My mom and step dad literally took everything but my bed, dresser, and desk out of my room. All my stuff was gone. I had to earn it back little by little. Then when I was still stubborn my mom locked me out of my room, so I couldn’t go in there and do things I wasn’t suppose to. It sounds harsh but boy am I thankful they did. I am like night and day now. Your daughter just needs to realize you rule not her. Once she gets that down all will go well. Sometimes my parents would stand and repeat the same thing over and over again until I did it. Like f my mom wanted me to do my homework evertime I would object she would repeat the same thing, ” do your homework” . Until I went and did it. That really works. It gets very irritating. I am so thankful that my parents were able to pull me back in. You just need to have a little faith. Shell come around. My parents pulled me back in and I’m sure you can pull your daughter back in. You can do it! Stand your ground and DO NOT give in. Although thats just my opinion. I know it sounds harsh but I don’t want to see another teen girl go down the wrong path. I’ve been in her shoes. It stinks. Maybe if you start writing her notes to remind her you’re there to talk when she needs you. That will be a subtle reminder that you’re there if needed. Thats another thing my mom did. It really helped. You can reel her back in! It’s not to late! 🙂 hope I have been of help. I’ll be praying for you.