My pen pal avoids me, why I’m so sad?
We have been pen pals since, more than five years ago.
We share a lot and everything, have even talked cam to cam.
Last month, it was the anniversary of her mother’s death and
I went all the way to her city. She avoided me.
I could guess it would happen, since, she’s not very open to people
but it was a long trip and I was hoping to see her.
We share a lot and everything, have even talked cam to cam.
Last month, it was the anniversary of her mother’s death and
I went all the way to her city. She avoided me.
I could guess it would happen, since, she’s not very open to people
but it was a long trip and I was hoping to see her.
Now, I feel broken.
Is this feeling normal?
She still wants me to stay in touch and keep our friendship
as before.
I’m confused about my feelings.
What to do?
i suffered the death of my brother and his anniversary is coming up, and i know that if my pen pal came without me knowing, id be kinda shocked too. meeting a pen pal face to face is supposed to be an exciting thing, and you can imagine smiles and laughter and a positive experience, but your down wen u think of greif and she probably wanted to greive in a way she saw fit, not going out with u and having fun, not that she shouldnt have fun with u, but it might just seem to her like it was an inapropriate thing. maybe u should forget it and continue to be her friend, as maybe she will open up to you at some point.. could be soon, could be another 5 years away but just be the friend she obviously needs u to be. hope it helped!!
people react to death differently.
whether she was close or not to her mum, she’d still grieve.
but when people are grieving, sometimes they feel they can’t talk about anything..
they feel like they’re like.. spacing out. or cant feel
or dont know what to feel etc.
i get that you were trying to be there for her, and thats great she may have just been to hurt at the time.
just be there for her, its all you can do.
whether she was close or not to her mum, she’d still grieve.
but when people are grieving, sometimes they feel they can’t talk about anything..
they feel like they’re like.. spacing out. or cant feel
or dont know what to feel etc.
i get that you were trying to be there for her, and thats great she may have just been to hurt at the time.
just be there for her, its all you can do.
tbh your freaky..
Your Pen pals.. thats not real friendship.. get REAL LIFE FRIENDS
Your Pen pals.. thats not real friendship.. get REAL LIFE FRIENDS
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